The guys at the Trek Store didn't find any Cannondale specific wrenches that looked right but said they have a BB tool that might work. The only one I can think of that's similar is the one for Campagnolo Mirage/Veloce/AC-H, etc. The flange on those BBs measures 43.23 mm and has 6 notches, so it would be close at least. Depends on how close the tool actually fits the round part of the nut. It might require some filing to get it over the nut. The Park tool is a box end wrench, so you'd likely have to cut the end off to get it over the shock. Here's a tool in Poland that's similar to the original Park and not too expensive. The current Park has some additional tabs that would probably be in your way. I couldn't find a listing for the original (which I have). I'll try to remember to measure the ID of the Park tool when I get to the shop.
https://www.ebay.com/itm/bottom-bra...980577?hash=item23b2583521:g:oCcAAOSwBqZcISNJ
One other thing you might try is to put the shock in the freezer for a while, then quickly heat the nut with a propane torch. Using a big "Englander" across two opposite notches you might develop enough torque to break the nut loose. You could also wrap the shock with wet paper towel or cloth to reduce the chance of getting the shock too hot.